Eight years ago this week I broke up with my best friend of twenty-five years. It had to be done. She had been verbally abusive
Tag: attachment

It’s Not Me, It’s Him
It’s a feeling about a fantasy scenario. It’s a big feeling, an intense feeling, and it’s about a nonexistent situation.

Cookie, and Calming an Anxious Attachment Style
Instead of, “Hey, this is nice. How lovely,” the heart screams, “Let’s think about how awful it will feel if this ends.”
Anxiety and Dating
I didn’t hear from the gentleman again after the lovely drink we had together last Friday. It gave me the opportunity to face some personal
First Date
I went on my first Tinder date tonight. I signed up on Saturday. Today is Monday. I also have a date lined up for tomorrow.